Allowance Solutions for Busy Families

Promote Budgeting, Saving, and Giving by Preparing an Allowance Plan

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Allowance Solutions for Busy Families - Angela Grogan-Henehan
Allowance Solutions for Busy Families - Angela Grogan-Henehan
Parents can run their home effectively with a part time allowance that complements their full time life.

An allowance is a great way to encourage young family members to become more helpful, responsible, and money savvy. However, making an allowance plan work can be a challenge.

Payment for Services

An employer never says on payday, "Well, let’s see what has been accomplished and how much payment is deserved." Instead, the amount is agreed upon in advance at hire.

So when hiring children and starting an allowance program, parents should agree on the amount of payment and responsibilities involved beforehand. Make a list to help everyone know what is to be expected. Approach the family household employees with a hiring and training session complete with handshakes and smiles.

Allowance Based on Child’s Age and Ability

A very small amount of allowance may be effective for a young child to understand that the coins collected for treats comes from helping an adult tidy up. An older child or a teenager may require more money.

As children mature and their abilities improve, the amount of allowance can vary a great deal. Some will mow yards and groom pets with amazing precision while others will barely find the time to empty the dishwasher. Yet all children deserve the chance to learn how to care for a home and work or their earnings.

Parents can set the allowance amount based on performance and agree ahead of time. Be prepared to change the agreement as the responsibilities increase. With more responsibility and more cash, children should also be provided more instructions on how to manage their hard earned allowance.

Get Ready for Pay Day

Make sure the allowance pay day corresponds to the grownup payday. Be sure to pay for services rendered. Whether it’s once a week, once every two weeks, or once a month, knowing that payday is coming helps keep everyone motivated.

What if Children Don’t do Their Part to Earn Their Money?

What if kids don’t do their work to and have not “earned” their allowance? Parents can re-evaluate their schedule. If a parent is part of a busy modern family, a part time allowance plan might be more affective, with an abbreviated list of household chores. Instead of trying to list the largest amount of work possible to gain the largest amount of allowance money, try making a list for a part time allowance for a part time “employee”.

The list may have a smaller number of duties with a part time amount of allowance, making the list actually possible to complete in the time available to the child as Mom or Dad helps them to balance school, sports, family, and friends. Extra money may be earned during holidays from school, weekends, or during times of great motivation.

Small Amounts of Money Add Up

A troubled economy makes no difference on whether the values of money management and good work ethics should be taught to children and teens. Allow the child to make mistakes and learn how to use his or her money in the smartest ways possible. Parents can improve the functioning of their home and family, while improving the self-esteem of the children by setting up their allowance program today.

Just like every bit of work done around the home keeps it running smoothly, every little bit of allowance earned adds up, and that is the important message.

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Feb 10, 2010 2:32 PM
Guest :
I heartily agree with Angela's assertion that an allowance need not be large to teach important money management skills and a solid work ethic to your kids. I also second the motion that such things are no less important in a troubled economy - in fact, probably more so!

Insanely busy parents (uh, I think that would be all parents, right?) might be interested to know that there are some convenient online allowance/chore management systems out there that can really simplify putting in place an effective, consistent money management program with your kids. They help with many of the ideas listed in this article: like having a consistent pay day, varying the amounts with age, explicitly enumarating the chore expectations, setting up extra bonus chores, etc. You don't want to be tracking this stuff on a piece of paper or in a spreadsheet or, worse, in your head. It'll either take too much of your time, or you'll forget - neither of which is good.

Angela points out that you need to be prepared to evolve your approach as a child matures. Agreed. In fact, you may want to model more advanced concepts like loans (so your child can see what its like to pay off a "big ticket" item over a long period of time), charitable giving (teach your child to set some fraction of their "income" aside for those less fortunate), budgeting (teach teens to make and stick to a budget), etc, Again, the best online systems can make that all really simple. For example, here's a "virtual family bank" that we built called FamZoo: http://bit.ly/aijBY7 Of course, it's the one I recommend, but there are others out there too. So search around a bit and compare. Just give yourself a break and don't try to keep it all in your head!

Most importantly, make sure you mentor your kids with these critical life skills. Let them practice and make mistakes in a safe, family environment before they graduate to the real adult world where things aren't quite so accomodating.

Cheers,
Bill Dwight, Founder FamZoo.com
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